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ها تقرير بسيط عن
Friendship
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والسمـــــــــــــــــــوحة….
Introduction :
What Is Friendship? Friendship is an in-depth, relaxed relationship! Friends relate. It is an in-depth relationship combining trust, support, communication, loyalty, understanding, empathy, and intimacy. These are certainly aspects of life that all of us crave. Being able to trust and relax with your friend is a big part of friendship. Remember when you were young and went with a friend to her grandma’s for the week-end. It was fun but when you got home, home was wonderful. Your feeling was "I’m home. I can relax now." That’s what a friendship should be. You go out into the world and do your best. You have your ups and downs, your problems and triumphs, your fun and tribulations. You charm and you perform. Then you come "home" to a friend. You can relax, put up your feet; you are relieved. If you still have to be charming and/or performing, it’s not a relief. Friendship is a comfy situation like home. You get home, kick off your shoes, relax and sigh, "Ahh, home." But no one can form a friendship until he/she realizes that the basis of being friends is meeting the needs of the other person. One must be a friend to have one. Never forget that friends relate. Relating is the basis of friendship.
Building Friendships from Casual Friends
In most cases, the transition from acquaintance to friendship occurs gradually. We reach out to offer friendship by offering a potential friend caring, listening, talking, sharing, accepting, and affirming. It takes time and effort to build a friendship. They are built slowly, slowly, slowly… Yet, nothing can add more to your life than having truly intimate friends. "Just friends" is a goal worth pursuing! Friendships can take up to three years to build! And building friendships is much the same for children as adults, but a bit quicker!
Self-Disclosure builds friendships.
Self-disclosure is usually the first step in establishing a confidant. And it is scary because of the potential rejection factor. Do it anyway! Start by sharing a few private thoughts and/or feelings with one person you might want for a close friend. If the person is responsive, he/she will usually share a personal thought or two with you. If he/she is not responsive to your overtures, don’t think of this as a rejection. People may be non-responsive for reasons of their own or merely as a perception of yours. Nevertheless,
they can’t be rejecting you because they don’t even know you yet.
Listening and acknowledging builds friendships.
Often when your child, lover/partner, or friend tells you a story or voices a complaint, he/she is just asking for acknowledgment. This does not mean that he/she wants agreement or compliance; it merely indicates a desire to be heard and understood. Try these three steps to acknowledgment:
1. Repeat back.
2. Don’t invalidate.
3. Don’t try to change.
4. Don’t problem solve.
Many conflicts in your personal relationships can be avoided if you will take the time to acknowledge other’s feelings and points of view.
Listening and attending builds friendships.
Paying attention to someone is called "attending." It means that your ears, your eyes, your body and your feelings are all focused on that person at one time. Attending is a very important part of any relationship. It includes:
1. Being there physically
2. Focusing
3. Eye contact
Looking at and focusing on another person shows that you are "there for him/her."
Talking Is a Primary Building Block of Friendships.
Talking is an integral component of friendship. When a friend talks and reveals ideas or feelings, she is expecting shared information in return. When the talk is not equal, the person talking feels as if the listener is uninterested. In fact, the person who is always the listener is really playing the role of a counselor, not a friend. Anytime you have been talking for more than a minute or two without participation from the person you are talking to, you are lecturing, bossing, or putting that person in the role of a counselor.
Denouement :
Finally l hope that you like my humble report and you learn how to build strong friendship , and l was recourse to write it by internet and my personality information . and thank you …
Sources : www.cybeparent.com/friendship
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